Saturday, May 3, 2014

Choices

Destiny is a matter of choice not of chance. Life is full of choices. We are who we are only because of those choices we made in our life. Sometime we choose what is best for us and many times it would be for people around us, people who love us and who care for us. Whatever the reason may be but those are the choices which decided who we are. During the course of life we all had situations where we had to make our choices. Some people think a lot and make a choice and never look back and some chooses the thing which come first to their mind without thinking much. Some times we will not be able to find any reason why we made those choice but we forget that some choices cannot be changed it can either take us up to the sky or bury us inside the ground. Either way we had to live them through out our lifeEven if it is true that choices we made cannot be changed back but it leave us with a bigger choice either to accept that and live our life or make a another choice. As it is said that our acts decide whom we are and our thoughts decide where we are. All of us made some bad choices in our life at some instant, some think about it and regret every single day but most of us try and spend rest of our life convincing our-self that was the best thing we could do. It is funny that sometimes we couldn't be able to say that weather what we made is a right choice or a bad choice, even if we think for hours we would never be able to find that answer. But every choice we make have their consequences, have its effect on us. I have also faced a situation when i have to choose whom i cant to be what should i do with my life. I decided to be a Marine Engineers. In this 4 years many times i have thought why i had chosen this field out of all the things why chose to be a sailor. Answer i really don't know. But i was my decision my own decision so i had to respect it and go on with my life.May be after some years i may face a situation where i should decided if I have to continue or quit and do some other job. Hope that time i will make a correct choice.